When I look at the situation, & want the things to be the way, I think, it has to be, than the question of right & wrong comes into our life.
When I think, I know the right way of life, & then I look at the other person, & feel that, he is wasting his time on earth, & I can show him the right path, or he should live the way I think, that is right, then the expectation comes in, to push others, in the directions of our beliefs.
But if, I know something that is the truth of life, before, I expect somebody else to act on it, the first thing, I am supposed to do, is to live the truth, for myself. If I live that truth, for each moment of the day, then it reflects in my life, & others can see & feel that truth. Than I don’t have to ask, somebody to follow me, or to persuade them to walk on the right path, but if they are smart enough, they will see it, & if, they like it, they will certainly bring the truth to their life.
We all have a path designed for ourselves, & the only real obligation, we have is to walk on that path, till the end. When I am on my path, I neednt worry about the other person’s path, & should constantly marching forward on my path.
When I am on the purpose, I save myself, with many unnecessary thoughts of wrong & right of life, & I can grow myself with better understanding of life.
When we walk on our path, we always have a deep urge to serve others, & to get others on the right path. But, as we evolve, we understood that, every path is the right path, & the only way to serve others, is to give more awareness for the path, so that he can see better, & he can walk with better awareness on his path.
When we see life, with its complete perfection, & then move on, with it to make it better, with each passing day, we create more perfection in our life. We only get lost, when we focus all our attention on others.
When a person understands the perfection of life, he walks on his path slowly & steadily, without any hurry & completely focuses in the direction of his path. When somebody is on his path, he can anytime, get down from his path, serve others & get back on his path.
To serve others, he never deviates from his path. Because he knows, that, if he falls from his path, he will neither be able to serve himself nor others. So it’s always better to walk on our path, & when our heart compels to serve others, we get from our path, do what is needed, & get back on our path.
The real service to god happens, when we live from our heart, & follows the guidance of the heart all the time. Nothing remains, but when we follow our heart, our soul, knows, what the real purpose of our life is, & directs us on that path.
When somebody doesn’t have a path & don’t have a real purpose in life, than the person gets puzzled looking at the outside world, & get caught up in the life of others & the complexities of life.
The focus is the key to life. If a person looses his focus from the most important things of his life, he invites self suffering in his life.
The key is to watch our self. If the need arise, save our self, from the situations & people, that no longer serve us in our life, & take our energy & enthusiasm for life. It’s very easy to get caught up in the situations, that don’t serve us.
When-ever, we get into the discussion, we always feel, we are right & the other’s are wrong, while the others too, holds the same perspective.
When we look at any particular situation, where two people argues, about something, the situation, remains, the same, but the two people, argues for the same situation, for their own perspective. We can always avoid such situations, where we see the difference of opinions, & we feel that, the matter may get to worse.
A Little Anecdote:
When Mr. A has made a commitment to mr.B, to reach at his place, before 8.30 pm, & for some reason, Mr. A has missed his train, & couldn’t reach on time. At that time, Mr. A didn’t have any source to inform to mr. B of getting late.
Mr. B, who is waiting, for his friend, felt frustrated, because, the waiting lasted for one hour.
Both Mr. A & Mr. B felt that, they both were Mr. Right, as per the situation, and the other person should have understood the need of the situation.
When we see from outside, we can understand, that everything was perfect, with the situation, & nobody was right, & nobody was wrong.
The same happens with the life’s situations. Passing through the day, we face many such situations, where it gets difficult to differentiate between who is right & who is wrong, & the one who has the power, tries to dominate the others. Every situation of life is perfect, but, when we have our own good opinion for the situation, we quote the situation, as good or bad.
The only thing that can serve the person in life’s situation is to have a good focus on himself, a level of awareness & alertness in a moment.
When we look from the top, the view is perfect. When Gautama Buddha looks at the sky, he tilted back, & laugh hilariously, as everything under the sun was perfect.
Every single person behaves out of his nature, & looks at the things, that are visible to him, out of his own understanding.
When we look at any situation of life, with the interpretation of right & wrong, we miss the point of perfection out of every situation.
Every moment is perfect, every situation, & every person out of his nature is perfect & with his life, moves more towards the perfection. The process of evolution, only knows how to move towards the perfection.
Nobody is right & nobody is wrong. Everybody looks at life, out of his understanding, & his level of awareness, in this moment. The person, who has a better awareness, should understand this fact, & serve the other person, to improve his level of awareness.
Each moment is perfect, and every one has their own view about life. The best way to go is ,to know our self better, & keep on moving in the direction, that serves the purpose of the moment.
A person who learns to walk alone, never gets lost. We only get caught up, if we are interested in others, more than our own life.
When we feel, we are right, & the other one is wrong, we forget that, every person has its own nature to follow, & this nature of a person, has been acquired over the course of time. If we try to prove, who is right & who is wrong, nothing can be achieved out of it.
When the people feel miserable in their life, they feel that they are the only people, who are suffering in the world, &the rest of the whole world is having the leisure time on earth.
This happens, when we forget, what has been offered to us in our plate, & we try to look into the plates of others. A person can never fall short of anything, if he can focus all his attention on his life. The problem comes when we feel, what we have received is lesser than the others, although, we may not have made any efforts, to earn, even that little. When we feel somebody, are happier than us, we forget that, he might have gone his fair share of pain & sorrow, and this is his time to have his share of success.
When we understand life, with better awareness, we see that, life plays fair with everyone, & nobody is benefited more or less with life. Every body gets equal share of joy & sorrow, and it all depends upon individuals, how they take it, and shape their life.
Even the sages in their life time, gets ill & suffer from the diseases. It’s just that they know how to smile out of their pain, & suffering, & this is the lesson, we all can learn from the sages.
When our understanding grows with life, we run lesser after pleasures of life, & we learn to embrace all the pain & suffering with a smile.
People more often have a laid back attitude towards life. Everyone is interested in enjoying life, without knowing the true purpose of life. When we grow & evolve, we understand that, the short term joy in life, certainly bring unnecessary pain in our life, & the real life happens with the knowledge, & real experience of life.
When we view obstacles as a tool to strengthen our muscles, we cherish all the situations, & we look forward to all the challenges in our life.
If we set on a path, initially, it takes time, to get the momentum, but once the momentum sets in, it’s impossible for the person to hold himself back, from his path.
To surrender with our actions is the best way, to avoid the trap of, “I am right & you are wrong”, & move towards the realm of perfection.
Death in our life confirms that, life cannot be planned at all the level & we need to learn to live with a flow of life. To flow with life, is to read the signs on the path, & get acquainted with it, & follow it further to the next level. Nobody can see the clear path till the end, but all we can see, is what is, in front of us. Once we cover that much distance, more is shown to us, to lead us further in life.