“The only reality is the one we have inside us. What makes most people’s lives so artificial and unworthy is that they falsely regard outside images as reality and they never allow their own inner world to speak.” –
My childhood, teens, adolescent, youth, middle, old age, all resides within me all the time. My life’s experiences, beliefs, relationships, lessons of life, knowledge, wisdom. The entire life of mine resides within me.
The mind holds the whole world inside me. The time, I live with the same old thoughts, beliefs, & the same old experiences of life, the progress with life seems slow.
The old mind looks at the world, from the past experiences, & creates the same old experience in the future. When we understand this truth about life, we start to work on our self, to change our inside world, so that we can see a better result in the outside world.
To change the world outside, first go deep inside to change your inner world. Trees are rooted deep inside, so does are age old beliefs & our past is rooted, so deep inside us, that it takes many lifetimes to bring some real change with our life.
If somebody is really looking for real change in life, learn to sit in silence, observe your breath, feel your emotions & know your thoughts, that hold your entire world outside. Practice new things, & accumulate new experience, so that you can start to see, completely fresh world, outside.
Learn new things that you like, gather knowledge about your interest, apply in your life. Before you notice any change, outside, you will see the changes, in your inside world.
Our brain is hard-wired to adopt the change. It’s a process of evolution, & it doesn’t happen quickly. It requires strong & dedicated effort, day in day out before you start to see some changes, in your life. Please show lots of patience with yourself, in the initial stage. But once the process starts from inside, you will not be able to stop yourself, from creating the wonderful heaven, in the outside world.
For E.g. I pass each day from the same path, and a person sits across the road & stairs me, like, I have done something wrong to him, & he wants to kill me for no reason. Now, till that person doesn’t take any action, I don’t find any reason to go to him and ask what is happening. It happens with me each day, & as the days are passing, by, these things are taking a new turn in my life, & now it starts bothering me, mentally & emotionally. All though that person hasn’t done anything to me, & all the things are going on inside me, still the impact is so huge on me, that my inside life, looks like a mess.
What are the possibilities in this situation?
Can I approach that person & clear the things up, but what should I clear, if I don’t know, what’s in his mind?
I can avoid the path, but that seems foolish, as that person has not done anything to me, & to leave the path, without any reason, doesn’t go well with me.
But there is certainly something, happening within me, that doesn’t give me any good feeling, & seems like, there is something seriously wrong, that is going on outside. What should I understand, out of this situation?
Our mind is such a manipulative, that it can think, as weird as he wants to, & create anything out of nothing. Once we understand this, rather than taking any of the action outside, we sit with our self, & see, what’s going on inside us. Once we start noticing inside us, we will be able to relate, with our feelings & emotions, & no sooner, we will start creating the better image of our outside situation. This can happen if a person is willing to change the things from inside.
Now, if everything is going smooth, within me about the situation, then next time, if I will pass by that situation, I will take an initiative, & will start with a formal hello, with that person, & if he reverts back, the things can be resolved in that moment. But, if he doesn’t reply, next day, we will certainly have the courage to ask that person, about, his purpose to be in that place, each day, at the same time, & what’s going on, into his mind.
But, this can happen, if we are clear from inside, & we don’t have any ill feeling for that person.
Outside situation, is always, as it should be, but when we create the inner conflict within our self, our outside world, seems to look like a chaos.
Most of the success & failure, win & loose, questions & answers, problems & solutions, is our mind thing, and once, we learn the art, to clear the things from inside; we can deal with any situation, of our life. The bigger the Ego, the severe will be the problem, in the outside world, to teach us the lesson, & help us to understand life better. The attitude of surrender with life is the best way to learn & understand life, & to grow & evolve with it.
It is impersonal, exact and precise. Become that which you want on the inside, and you shall receive it in the outside world. The most important action to take is the work within you. When that is done, you will be moved in the outside world to receive what you asked for. – Rhonda Byrne.
Sometimes it becomes a challenge to break lifelong anger & hatred of our heart towards the world, but when we understand that change is possible, for the better, & to move on with our life, & to see the better possibilities of our own world, we are ready to accept our inner world, & adopt the necessary changes required, from inside, to break the age old chain, & learn to look at the world, from completely different perspective.
We can only transcend the limit of our world, if we see the different possibilities, available to us in this world. If we see in our imagination, that good can happen to us, it will certainly happen, & if we see the realization of our possibilities, in the outside world, then we can start to make move towards it.
In the world, the possibilities are many, & everything is achievable if our heart beats for those things. We can make the real change in our life if it comes deep down from our heart. Sometimes, we have to go really deep within our self, to find out what we really want from our life, & once we are convinced, what we are here for, & why we do, what we do, in our life, then it becomes easier to manifest those things in the outer world.
When we want anything in the outside world, our love should pulsate in our heart for those things, & then it becomes very easy to give everything, what we have, to the things, that we really want out of our life. The time we fall in love with our path, things start to happen in the outside world.
When our whole attention & focus is diverted on what we give to life, we are almost certain, to receive back from life, what we have desired for our life.